REBLOG: 37 Good Questions To Ask If You Want To Get Vulnerable With Someone You Love (or blog friends!!)

Hello friends & happy Monday!
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I am feeling a bit uninspired today so I took a peek around one of my favorite blogs – Thought Catalog for an article to share with all of you fabulous people! However, I stumbled across this questionnaire and felt it would be perfect to reblog! “37 Good Questions To Ask If You Want To Get Vulnerable With Someone You Love – By Marisa Donnelly.”

So with that being said, I hope you learn a little more about me and lets get vulnerable!?


**Copied from Thought Catalog from the above links**

Whether a friend, a family member, a significant other, or a life-long partner, these are good questions to ask if you really want to get vulnerable with someone you love and know who they really are underneath the surface.

  1. What’s the scariest thing you’ve ever done?
    • Taking on single life/homeownership/dog mom/responsibility/mental illness in 2015 overnight…literally.
  2. What’s one moment that you wish you rewind and replay 100 times?
    • I legit have no idea….I will keep thinking on this one…maybe it has not happened yet?
  3. When its 3am and you’re all alone, what do you think about?
    • If I am up at 3am, I am probably thinking about EVERYTHING under the sun but also the key portion would be why the fuck can’t I just sleep!!?
  4. What’s one thing about the future that scares you?
    • Of course the uncertainty. I am 29, lemon of a human, never married and 0 kids – outside of the doggos of course. I always pictured that I would have at least one child and married by now for sure. Sadly, that didn’t go as planned haha. So, I guess I am interested to see when the hell that will happen. Outside of that…I know I will be able to face anything :).
  5. Do you regret anything?
    • Not investing earlier in life haha and taking naps/energy for granted as a young Padawan .
  6. What has been your greatest struggle?
    • Same as question 1
  7. What has been your greatest triumph?
    • Keeping my house, my health-ish and keeping the doggos and myself alive as a single gal.
  8. How would you describe yourself to a stranger?
    • I am a bit odd but I have a good heart hahahaha
  9. What are three words that define who you are?
    • Loyal, moral and a bad ass who loves floral! Yea..idk. But these are true?
  10. What’s holding you back from your dreams?
    • That whole money thing…ugh. All I want in life is my coffee house, a beach house and a large home fit for all my doggos – is that so much to ask!?
  11. What’s one thing you’ve never told anyone about yourself?
    • You know, I do not have anything coming to mind here. I have a small tight circle and they pretty much know everything about me, or you all do from my blog!
  12. Have you ever done something you wish you could erase?
    • Of course, I would imagine everyone would have something here. I don’t think I would have bought my house if I could go back. I love having a place of my own. However, surrounding circumstances that led me to the home was not great and still to this day, is still not great.
  13. What do you do when you’re feeling lonely?
    • This is a common feeling for me, but most of the time I do not mind it. I am used to it – yeeeeesh that sounds a bit rough eh!? But if it gets to that level, I will try to be social, reach out to a friend or go out and do something for myself or doggos.
  14. What’s your vice?
    • Oh sweets now. Since I kicked nicotine’s ass, I really enjoy any kind of sweet at this point. Pray for me 🙂
  15. Have you ever been in love?
    • Of course! It is the best and most frustrating thing ever 😀
  16. Have you ever hurt someone you loved?
    • I try to avoid this as much as possible, but I am human and have.
  17. Have you ever been hurt in love?
    • Yes, I assume everyone has  haha. Whether it was your young first love, a spouse and everything in between, being hurt by someone you love hits a deep nerve that takes time to heal.
  18. If you could tell your younger self some advice, what would it be?
    • Life is tough, but so are you – don’t worry about all the shit – you make it out alive! Better than ever 🙂
  19. How has your family shaped you?
    • I am sure, but I feel I shape them more. I am the adult of the family – ugh
  20. If you could only bring three things with you into your next life/Heaven/after life/etc. what would you bring?
    • The perfect pen (that has endless ink), endless paper and a photo album of my loved ones.
  21. If you could only talk to one person for the rest of your life, who would he/she be?
    • Ummm this is impossible to answer, I will think on it!
  22. What’s something you strongly dislike/hate?
    • The hate that I see in the world today, it truly saddens me.
  23. What do you think the word ‘love’ means?
    • Love is selflessness, its ensuring your better half is taken care of even if you don’t feel 100%, its also stealing blankets, compromise, respect and fighting life together side by side. The world is tough, life can be hard and people can try to ruin a good thing – keep kicking ass together.
  24. What do you believe?
    • I believe this world needs to learn to be a little more kinder to the ones next to us. Literally your own neighbors, but also your peers, fellow country men and others across the way.
  25. What is one thing you’ve had to forgive yourself for?
    • For not being where I want to be in life.
  26. If you could relive your life again, what’s something you would change?
    • Finish college and be a little more selfish (less of taking care of everyone else before me).
  27. If you could relive your life again, what’s something you would keep the same?
    • My resiliency
  28. What kind of music do you listen to when you’re sad?
    • I do not listen to music when I am sad.
  29. If you had to describe yourself in one word, what would it be?
    • Erratic?
  30. What is something you like about yourself?
    • My loyalty or my kind heart.
  31. What is something about yourself you wish you could change?
    • While I do enjoy my patient and kind soul…I wish I could stand up for myself more too- maybe through around more sass if needed!
  32. What makes you a good person?
    • I will do my best to ensure my friends, family and SO is taken care of. I will sacrifice for them – always.
  33. What is something you’re insecure about, or like to hide from the world?
    • My lemon  body
  34. Have you ever had your heart broken?
    • Of course, I feel this was already touched on questionnaire!
  35. What’s the stupidest thing you’ve ever done?
    • This list is too long haha. Pre coffee times + sleep deprivation = I do a lot of stupid shit 🙂
  36. What’s the best thing that’s ever happened to you?
    • Realizing that I do not need anyone, I am independent.
  37. What does it mean to truly love someone?
    • Its going into the battle of life with your best friend and not giving up.
      Also, acting silly together, vulnerability and sweaty hand holding 😀


Until next time my friends! ❤

Kat

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Dawn Dagger Challenge

The lovely, sweet and amazing Nina ❤ tagged me to do the Dawn Dagger Challenge and while I am a little (ahem…very) late…I am so happy to complete this challenge! This is the first time I have been tagged to do this challenge as well, so thank you so much for nominating me!

Click here to see her post.

RULES:

  • Answer the questions given
  • Give 10 questions for your nominees
  • Tag 1-10 people

NINA’S QUESTIONS:

  1. If you could time travel, where would you go?
    • Humm. Now this is a good question… probably Roaring 20s! Empowerment and inspiration seemed to be in the air, especially for the ladies and African Americans. On a more fun note – fabulous style and entertainment – hello! I would love to observe and get my flapper dress on!
  2. Rainy weather or sunny weather?
    • Sunny always ❤ I have a vitamin d deficiency, I need all the sun that I can get. Also…like SPF100
  3. What’s your favorite Disney movie?
    • This is really difficult 😦 I mean.. Obviously Alice in Wonderland is one of my faves but Mulan is a very close second.
  4. Cats or dogs?
    • As a crazy dog lady…dogs. Always dogs 🙂
  5. Are you a night owl or an early bird?
    • Permanently exhausted pigeon
    1. What’s your favourite TV show?
      • Right now? Supernatural.
    2. If you could have any superpower, what would it be and why?
      • Positive superpowers! Meaning, the ability to assist deeply depressed/anxious/etc people by taking away all the negative energy just by holder their hand 🙂 and replace it with positive vibes and encouragement…also to bring dead plants back to life….
    3. Which country would you like to visit?
      • Ireland, or really anywhere across the pond if you will. It seems the US is known for its fast pace and potential asshole ways, I would love to see how others live! Take me away!!
    4. Can you share a life lesson you have learned?
      • You cannot depend on anyone but yourself. The moment that you do, they hold the power to bring you down. Remember self care and independence is the best thing you can do for yourself.
    5. Sweet or savoury?
      • Sweet!
    6. MY QUESTIONS:

      1. Coffee or tea?
      2. Where would you like to travel?
      3. What is your favorite “self care” thing to do!?
      4. What is your favorite movie?
      5. If you could stop everything and do something right now…what would it be!?
      6. What is your favorite thing about blogging?
      7. Pick one: athletic shoes, slip ons, flip flops, rain boots or bare!?
      8. Do you have anything exciting planned for the summer?
      9. What is your favorite fictional character?
      10. What is your favorite feature (face/body etc)?

      MY BLOG NOMINEES:

      I hope you are having a wonderful day! I look forward to seeing your answers!

      Kat